tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-61788559353240540852024-03-28T23:29:48.235-04:00Your World: Healthy and NaturalThis blog is here to share the gift of good health and natural living with you so you can live your best life! You will also find great products that we review and have chances to win these products through the many giveaways!Cara Nitzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10124425716814135959noreply@blogger.comBlogger156012tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6178855935324054085.post-5495190742278459672018-12-21T17:06:00.000-05:002018-12-21T17:06:01.385-05:00The Shadow of Mommy <div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px;">
As much as I love my kids so dearly.<br />As much as I love my husband so much.<br />As much as I crumble when people yell at me. Or even say one mean word.<br />I have found myself doing it.</div>
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The noise level in our house has been higher than normal. Or at least it seemed to me. I found myself asking why. Why are the kids so loud? Why are they yelling? Why are they having an attitude with me and each other?</div>
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And as hard as it is to swallow, the answer, at least in part, is me. See - that’s the cool thing about parenting. Your kids teach you a lot. They are soaking up what you are doing. They are like little copy cats. And this time - what they’re copying doesn’t make me proud at all.</div>
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They’re copying my yelling. They’re copying how I deal with stress, frustration, being overwhelmed.</div>
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When this truth hit me like a hard stone, I won’t lie, it hurt. But I know I’m not the only one. Being a mom or dad is hard. Beyond hard sometimes. And if you’ve found yourself yelling or losing it when overwhelmed, I get you mama (or daddy). I know you feel guilty. I know you regret it. I know you love your kids. I know you are doing your best.</div>
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None of us is perfect. But we have an amazing God and Father who is! Because He loves us so much, we are forgiven. You are forgiven. I am forgiven.</div>
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Each day is a new day. And I’m on a journey to be a more patient, peaceful mom. I’m cutting down on multi-tasking so I don’t get overwhelmed so easily. I’m getting down at eye-level and treasuring their little faces and emotions instead of being impatient. I’m making my own self-care a priority so I’m not empty with little to give when much is needed. I’m apologizing, asking for forgiveness.</div>
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It’s a journey for sure. Good days, bad moments. Trying again. But as I’ve started hearing my daughter speak to her brother in the kind loving way I’ve been using with her, it brings tears to my eyes and fills my heart with SO MUCH joy!</div>
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The journey is hard, but so rewarding, isn’t it? We’re in this together friend!</div>
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What are you thirsty for?</div>
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That’s the question my pastor asked last weekend as he talked about all the different things we go to when we feel empty.</div>
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I’ve been thinking about that question for such a long time.</div>
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I’ve bounced between trying to fill my empty with food and exercise and relationships. I’ve found myself looking to accomplishments, perfection, social media, and I’m sure there are more.</div>
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But what really fills that void? Quenches our thirst? </div>
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<br />For me, I’ve found that what I really need is peace. Real lasting peace. And I haven’t found any better peace than looking to God’s promises and being reminded of his incredibly amazing, perfect love for me. And for us all.</div>
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It feels so good to pour out my heart to the one person who never lets me down. To be filled with his words from the Bible through music or time spent reading through a chapter every day.</div>
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I’m so so grateful to always have that peace waiting for me, no matter what my day looks like.</div>
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What’s your favorite go-to when you feel empty?</div>
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